Smiles & Tears

1/30/2006

Falling in Love with The concept …..



Ever wondered why some people fall in and out of love more easily…why do they jump in a relationship after another …each time they would say this is the one for me..and believe me they do tend to be very serious and many times there would be marriage plans in the air!….so why do they change so quickly ..why the sudden change of heart why do they back off and soon forget all about that person!...

To think about it …the only explanation that could describe their behaviors .. is that these people are not really in love but they are in love with the idea of being in love …to be in that special state of mind ..to go through those special feelings…to live those special moments with someone they might like or maybe not..to feel the attention of another …and that’s the least that can be said about what they feel….so basically they are into the relationship for their own selfish reasons…and not because they genuinely care for the other….that’s why whenever the sparks of the moments are gone out of the relationship and they get bored…or the other party wants to get into a more serious notion or in a worst scenario want to break up!…either ways that wont affect them that much…and we will soon find them with someone else!..repeating the same old scene!....
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1/29/2006

Hospital Companion...

In our society it’s a trend or should I say a common but blessing tradition …to have a close one to stay around all the day with the patient…also to sleep over at nights…sometimes it’s the mother other times the daughter/son or sister/brother or even granddaughter/son..etc … its kind of comforting feeling for the patient to have someone close to him around all the time so she /he won't feel lonely or scared of all the white coats and white gowns ;)…or to have someone to take care of him/her and to talk to so he/she won’t feel bored…I have been a companion countless times for my beloved ones especially for my mom…here and abroad and I witnessed so many other girls who were with their beloved ones too…I admired some of them so much …especially those who kept on being there under hard conditions ..like they had to sleep on the chair all night long or even worst on the floor cause they couldn’t get or afford a private room!!!...

I came across a girl who was there for her very old grandmother..and she slept on the floor every night for months and when I expressed my surprise …she told me she slept for her late grandfather too who was unconscious for seven months!!…and lately I came across yet another girl who was there for her grandmother … and she slept on the chair every night! ….she was there for 8 months now!!.....i saw her once feeding her granny through a tube coming out of her nose…! It touched me so much that I cried ...and there was this other girl who slept on the chair too for her ill mother ..the list is endless…all I can say to them all ..baraka Allah feekom ( God bless you)…for being there for your loved ones ..these kind of behaviors make me feel that our society is still be2alf ‘7eer…al7amdolilah..:)
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Mamaty....



you mamaty... mama….omah …amma …you are the best …you are the soul of my heart…….i have never seen someone who could put up with things so gracfully like you …no one has the big heart that you have…nor the patience …I look up to you …you taught me what love means …and what is it to love someone unconditionally ….from you I have learned that love is the other side of sacrifice and compromise…. you are the kind of person that makes any one fall in love with you instantly cause of your kind heart…you are so beautiful..your kind of beauty comes within the depth of your good soul and spreads all over your lovely face …that’s why you still are so beautiful …your light eyes light up with mist every time you see someone suffers ..you never turn away for someone in need…you always step to help…you care for us all…you are unique …or how else could I explain you…as I never seen someone else do the things you do…I have never seen someone else who could love her step children like you…or even amazingly love her husbands wife like a sister like you!..because of you we are one family…you amaze me…I love you so much ….I hurt when I see you hurt…my heart aches …please get well soon…for our sake for we are so lost without you...may Allah give you a long, long life and may He vanish all your pains…ameen...
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DO YOU LOVE OUR PROPHET MOHAMMAD(SAW)?...


IF YOU LOVE OUR PROPHET MOHAMMAD(SAW)...BOYCOTT DANISH PRODUCTS...
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1/17/2006

Shades of My Thoughts...

1- We hurt the most ..when the people whom we love the most cause the pain..

2- Sometimes if you want to gain something you have to lose something..

3- Hope is like a star in the darkest night..it doesn’t light your way..but it will always guide you to the light

4- When you love someone give your self to them but not completely..keep some pieces of you for your self alone

5- In love I am you...and you are me...but in thoughts I am I....you are you..we will share our lives together..but we will still be independent

6- freedom of choice is a privilege...not everyone can afford

7- If you worship Allah in true sense…you will never commit (kabaer) major sins no matter what the temptations are …no matter whom you are with …and no matter where you are

8- Honesty is a ticket to people’s heart..but remember sometimes too much of it includes the return ticket as well

9- Don’t imitate others ..you might lose your own identity in the process…and will just become another lousy photocopy..

10- We don’t choose who we are but we sure can choose what we become..

11- Money doesn’t change people’s characteristics ..but it shows us their true colors and what they really stood for all along..

12- Please stop nagging all the time..you are already feeling bad why make others feel miserable too…

13- To achieve the true happiness ..we don’t need to get everything …true happiness is when we make the most of what we get ..even if it seems so little …

14- Words may or may not reach our hearts ..but a genuine smile will always find a path of its own to our hearts …

15- Nothing stays the same ..the more you believe it …the more you will be able to accept anything that the destiny holds for you ….no matter how hard it may seem ..

16- Sometimes when I say I am sorry ..that doesn’t mean I was wrong and you were right ..it’s just a rational way to break up an endless argument… and to end a stupid fight

17- Sometimes life’s simplest things make us dance with joy ( remember that unexpected phone call from a friend you haven’t been in touch with for long, or even that short message sent by someone very dear to your heart…

18- When you appreciate others it shows that you appreciate yourself even more…but when you bring others down by making fun of them ..it simply indicates that you are trying to hide your own inferior complex by devaluing others..and how low you think of yourself ..

19- Three indications of true love: it can be heard by words of mouth, it can be felt through the emotions and it can be seen through the actions..

20- Our religion is a part of us ..it’s apart of who and what we are .. no one has the right to ask us to separate it from our daily issues or from whatever concerns us in our lives..




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